When Dads Want Credit Without the Work: My Thoughts on the Dennis Padilla – Claudia Barretto Wedding Drama

Let’s talk about something that’s been making the rounds on social media lately—Dennis Padilla airing his feelings (read: grievances) online after being invited to his daughter Claudia Barretto’s wedding… but not exactly honored in the way he expected.

Now, I haven’t watched the entire interview Marjorie Barretto did with Ogie Diaz, but I’ve seen enough snippets to get the gist—and as a former single mom, I felt that.

Dennis claims he was treated “like a visitor.” But sir, respectfully… if you’ve spent years being absent, you can’t just suddenly expect front-row-dad status at your daughter’s big day. Fatherhood doesn’t work like a Netflix subscription—you can’t just log back in when you feel like it and expect premium access.

From what I’ve gathered, Marjorie and Claudia were clear about their terms: he was welcome to come, but no posting online and no drama. And guess what? He did the exact opposite. He posted. He made noise. He took the spotlight—on a day that should have been all about Claudia and her new chapter.

This hits close to home for me. I know what it’s like to raise a child alone—to juggle sleepless nights, financial struggles, emotional labor, and every responsibility in between. And then for someone who wasn’t there through all of that to swoop in and act entitled? Whew. That’s not just hurtful—it’s exhausting.

Parenting isn’t just about DNA or last names. It’s about consistency, presence, and putting your child’s well-being above your ego. And if you’ve missed out on years of doing the work, the very least you can do is show up quietly and respectfully when you’re finally invited in.

This should’ve been a peaceful, joyful moment for Claudia. Instead, it got overshadowed by another round of public drama.

So to all the single parents out there doing the work quietly—without applause or Instagram tributes—just know you’re seen, you’re appreciated, and you’re doing amazing.

As for the rest? Maybe consider doing the healing offline next time.