Today was supposed to be one of those peaceful Sundays—a day meant for recharging and finding some semblance of balance before diving headfirst into another week. I had my usual massage session, and let me tell you, I could not be more grateful for my therapist. She really went the extra mile today, working out the knots in my hamstrings that have been driving me crazy. For a brief moment, I felt a sense of relief, a rare kind of peace that I don’t often get to experience.

But here I am, almost midnight, and sleep is nowhere in sight. Instead, Angelina Jolie’s “Those Who Wish Me Dead” movie is playing in the background. I’ve seen this film three times, so I know how it ends. Maybe that’s why it’s not enough to pull me away from the thoughts that are swirling in my head.

Yesterday, I made some changes to my blog—nothing too drastic, just a little update to the photo gallery. I added albums like “Friendship Network,” “Family Chronicles,” and of course, one for little Yui Raphielle. I spent hours gathering photos, not just of family, but of everyone I’ve ever had the chance to snap a picture with. Some of these “everyones” happen to be local celebrities. And, if I’m being completely honest, a tiny part of me thought, “This will make my blog look good.” I imagined people scrolling through, thinking, “Wow, she’s friends with these people?”

But then, reality hit me like a ton of bricks. It suddenly dawned on me that these so-called celebrities probably don’t even remember I exist. They might not even recognize me if we crossed paths today. What was I thinking? The next day, in a bout of self-reflection (and, let’s be real, a little shame), I took down those photos. The idea that I was trying to show off, to make myself appear more interesting, just didn’t sit right with me. I felt like I had to redeem myself, to strip away that false layer and just be… me.

And yet, even after doing that, my mind started to wander. I looked at the friends who were left in my gallery—the real ones, the ones who have been by my side for years. They’re amazing people, truly. But they’ve traveled the world, experienced things I can only imagine, while I haven’t even visited some of the nicest places in my own country. It’s a sobering thought.

How did I end up friends with people whose lives are so vastly different from mine? Yes, they’re well off, and sure, I can afford to travel too, but here’s the kicker—I don’t want to. The idea of hopping on a plane, navigating unfamiliar places, and doing all the “touristy” things doesn’t appeal to me. Does that make me boring? Maybe. But here’s something I’ve come to realize: my love for staying home, for curling up with a good movie, for finding joy in the everyday routine—it’s not just about comfort.

It’s about peace of mind. It’s about knowing that in my own little corner of the world, I’m safe. I don’t have to worry about flight delays, lost luggage, or the stress of navigating a foreign city. I don’t have to face the anxiety of being far from home, where things are familiar, and where I know I can relax.

There’s a certain kind of longevity that comes with choosing simplicity over chaos, routine over unpredictability.

By staying close to home, I’ve learned to appreciate the small things—the quiet mornings, the predictable rhythm of my days, the feeling of safety that comes from knowing I’m exactly where I need to be. Maybe I’m wrong, but I can’t help but feel that in embracing this simplicity, I might just be adding years to my life. Less stress, less anxiety, more peace—I like to think it’s a recipe for a longer, more fulfilling life.

So here I am, in the quiet of the night, questioning everything from my friendships to my life choices. Maybe tomorrow I’ll wake up with a clearer head, but for now, I’m just a girl who loves the simple things. And maybe, just maybe, that’s enough.